Are you this person...? You have a friend, who is not really close to you, but you talk to him/her because they don't have many friends and they are a pretty nice person. One day, unexpectedly, this mild friend of yours tells you they want to talk to you privately because they have a big secret to tell you.
OR are you the person with the big secret? If you are this person, it can really suck. No matter what the secret is, it is probably one of your deepest ones and you're telling this friend because you want you guys to become closer. You're hoping that the person will reveal something big about themselves to you. And it will be a nice, intimate thing. Sometimes, it may work...But most of the time, you will end up feeling dumb and you will regret telling the secret. That person could either avoid you after that or end up telling their actual best friends about it. It's a messy situation....And it's all because you wanted to force that person into becoming a close friend with you.
If you are the first person I mentioned and you're a nice person, you will have to deal with the mild friend coming to you all the time saying "remember that thing I told you? Well now THIS happened..." And you'll wonder why she/he decided to tell YOU about this when you never asked.
You should be careful who you tell your secrets to. You don't want to become vulnerable and give too much, when you're not getting it in return. If you're going to disclose information about yourself, you should expect something in return.
Hmm, I think I'm more of the first person, except I can get annoyed by people telling me things all the time aha. I'm def not the second person because I'm pretty secretive, I don't like telling people things. Cute post, the pic is adorable too aha ^.^
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Hmm, I think I'm more of the first person, except I can get annoyed by people telling me things all the time aha. I'm def not the second person because I'm pretty secretive, I don't like telling people things. Cute post, the pic is adorable too aha ^.^